Monday, April 26, 2010

WHat Today?

Ok so it has been about one/two months since the last I blogged! Forgive Me! I really don't have anything to blog about right now. I am very excited that My mom was just here to visit, they might come up in a few weeks, my friend from Missoula is coming this weekend, and I guess that's about it. I just strolled down memory lane a few nights ago and I realized that I have made some questionable decisions but I haev learned so much from those mistakes. I wish I had the motivation to write a book for incoming freshman girls. I would begin my book with the importance of finding a great group of friends to the first week you get to campus. I sure did! We went to toga parties together, most campus events, of course the occasional party, flirted with boys and so much more. I would also suggest that if they are in a relationship that they should consider taking a few months break from that relationship to focus on college life. Doesn't mean that freshman girls need to experience other options but I would just suggest focusing on friends and just having a good time and keep your options open. After the first year, if the relationship is still an option then you know it was meant to be if the feelings stayed throughout that year apart. I know taking those few months apart from my boyfriend (now husband), was the best thing for us. I was able to experience college with my friends and I didn't have to share my time with anyone else. HOwever, the choices I did make during that time apart could be classified as the worst decisions I've ever made. But in the end I learned from those decisions and I was able to see the right choices way more clearly. All the drama associated with those choices seemed to linger for a lot longer than anyone would have wanted. But those days are gone and my choices have led to my wonderful relationship with my husband. I know I am a young bride and our relationship is in it's birth stage. I